Sunday, January 24, 2010
Belajarlah Menghormati Hak Orang Lain
Actually i've been wanting to write about this for quite some time jugak lah. But i just dunno where to start. What would you do kalau you tau ada orang (read: perempuan) cuba dekati boyfriend/ tunang/ husband you? And she's clearly knows that he's taken. Ok, maybe perempuan tu pikir dia akan dapat memenangi hati lelaki tu. But would it be stupid move to kacau hak orang lain? Kalau lelaki tu pun suka lain cerita. But come on la, that guy just treated you as a friend. Why dont you get a life. Find somebody else that still available. And dont say you didnt know he got girlfriend already please. The proof is landed right in front of you. Tapi kalau masih mahu hidup dalam denial, terpulang. Atau mungkin berharap pasangan you kacau tu takkan kekal lama.
But for me to still kacau lelaki yang clearly got girlfriend and all this while shows how much he loves her, boo to you. It really really shows how pathetic you are. You do have life, aint you?
I pernah jugak sekali dulu, attracted to this guy. But then i didnt know he's engaged. Dia pun tak bagitau. Once i found out, terus tak contact lagi dah. Unless for business matters (we used to have some deals together).
Kadang-kadang memang ada defence dari perempuan macam tu akan cakap "eh boyfriend u yang terkejar-kejar i, yang cari i" So its better to ask explanation from your man first before accusing somebody else. But that would be totally different kalau lelaki tu dah bagitau dia dah ada girlfriend and you still harassing him!
Persoalan yang selalu i pikir, ada ke perempuan yang bangga bila boyfriend/ tunang/ laki orang lain minat kat dia? Dan seronokkah bila kita yang jadi punca pasangan lain bergaduh atau bertengkar?